No visitation. He's being cremated. The funeral will be tues or wed. I'll call Sam tonight and find out the deets. Then this Saturday there will be another get together at Sam's house so all the people that couldn't come yesterday can come and pay their respects.
Sam and Jeff got married in Oct of 2006. They dated for at least a year before that. And, of course, we were all friends in college.
Another awful thing...Sam's a widow at 30 y/o. Her sister was also a widow at 30!! It's been almost 6 years since Jennifer's husband died. Can you believe it happened twice in ONE FAMILY. They're just wrecked.
I'm dealing by not dealing. Yesterday I was in shock. Then I was drinking and trying to catch up with old friends. This morning I woke up and my mind wouldn't quit! I didn't even shower... I just got dressed and left for work. The drive here was awful. I couldn't stop thinking about little things... like Jeff's laugh. I'll never hear his infectious laugh again. I'll never hear him call me "Corn Dawg" again. Weird little things. So, now...to not think about things, I'm just working. Zoning out. The day of the funeral will be the worst.
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CBB, I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I am praying for you. I love you. Samantha too.
How are Jennifer and the baby doing??
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